>>19026938

How did you match her?

I tried tinder when it first came out, and I could never match girls like that. I could only match with fatties. I’m average looking and /fit/ too.

Maybe location matters. Where are you from? I’m near Washington DC, USA. Most girls in this area are super liberal and expect men to be 10/10s and pay for everything

>>19026951

Wow she’s a dirty slut. Fuck that bitch

>>19026958
I'm in Arizona. I don't know how to tell you how I matched her. I just put up good pictures of myself and in my bio I wrote something funny. Funny, I've only dated liberals.

>>19026962
Literally.

>>19026982

Don’t do this. Avoid the STIs

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>>19025646

Man don't listen to these losers. I met my girlfriend on tinder, and now my life has been fucking awesome for the last 5 months. I love her, and she isn't a whore, she was on tinder to get herself out there and date.

Incel cucks have the worst advice when it comes to women. OP don't give up, just quit sounding like a faggot when you message chicks. That's all man.

>>19026117
Just because you fuck someone from tinder (don't think you were her first match either) and then find you have a lot in common doesn't mean it's primarily a hookup app.

You know fucking is pretty fucking good way of figuring out if you are compatible with another person.

first rule of thumb. if shes giving you two-three word responses. drop her and move on. try to match how much thought she puts into her messages.

>>19025557
>Am I doing something wrong?
they can smell the desperation

>>19026117

Med my girlfriend of 15 months on tinder, tinder is great for meeting tonnes of people. you don't get to know people through text or profiles.

>>19026790
OP Yea, I was afraid that switching might be the way to go. Been less and less comfortable supporting google with their sjw mindset. Don't wanna switch, but these in combination might be the final push for me.

>>19026798
OP here*

>>19026788
>reply
it looks like you're opening every second thread

Your attention span is probably trashed.

>>19026965
Some pot in highschool, and alcohol for the past 3 years(1 skinny/day)

>>19026770
Quit your job before you fuckup all 3 lifes and wait for a while before contacting him at all

>>19026780
In actuality I did talk to my current lover about it. I did it early on because I am very honest and I hate to leave things bottled in. To leave him out of it would be very disrespectful. We talk about everything together. So no need to hide anything or bottle it up

>>19026770
All depends on the type person you are and want to be.

There will always be guys you meet and work with you get along with and perhaps develop a crush on be it this job or the next or the next. It doesn't mean you should start a relationship with all of them but it is possible one of them would be a better partner for you than your current bf.

Instead of concentrating your energy on this crush you should be evaluating your existing relationship. Not to determine if he is a better guy than the coworker but if the relationship is one you want to continue to invest in. If its not then you exit the relationship but if it is then start protecting the relationship and stop doing things that undermine it.

>>19026786
While you aren't lying you are being a coward about this and throwing some of the responsibility of your decision on your current bf. You alone must decide if you want the current relationship or be free to pursue other men. Otherwise you are stringing this along as you get to know the coworker better and test him for being relationship worthy.

>>19026799
>Instead of concentrating your energy on this crush you should be evaluating your existing relationship. Not to determine if he is a better guy than the coworker but if the relationship is one you want to continue to invest in. If its not then you exit the relationship but if it is then start protecting the relationship and stop doing things that undermine it

Best advice ITT
Thank you anon, whoever you are out there. That was very helpful and that gives me the perspective I needed, the fresh pair of eyes to solve the problem

>>19025653
go with relative sober if you can't keep it relative quit.

>>19025653
Drinking to deal with emotions is not healthy behavior. It is common knowledge at this point.

>>19025653
Drinking and emotions don't mix well. Not healthy.

>>19025587
Well I suppose you would take about 500 bucks out of what you earn and put it on the bank and repeat that for 12 months

>>19025587

just make a spread sheet. spread sheet dictates how much you get and how much you spend.

me spread sheet:
>make 1650 a month
>515 for rent
>100 for bus
>300 for food (this include any necessity like soap or haircut)
>300 for fun (this include eat out)
>100 for utilities

this leave 335 left over. i put 300 in saving and asume i lose 35 in purchases i forget to calculate / donations to the village rapist / change go into piggy bank

>>19025587
Move in with your parents, dump your gf, lose all expensive habits like buying golden edition games

>>19025587
Have a budget and isolate the 500 hundred bucks in a separate account. Might even consider giving the account to a trusted relative or friend if you have a spending habit.

>>19026970
You're already sane.. Why are you going there "for a month?"
Just keep a lappy and social connections. No worries, it'll pass out fast

>>19026929
No we are officialy in a relationahip for 2 months but I just don't really like her anymore

>>19026819
Nothing, it's normal for people to break up when it's not working, especially when you're still dating.

Don't overthink the social pressure you might've gotten from your circle, they'll just go "oh" and "ok" then life goes on. You won't be alienated or excommunicated. If you are, then it signs to find better friends.

>>19026939
>2 months
Thats not really a relationship but dating. Don't see her anymore or talk to her. Easy

Alright thanks bros

>>19026819
The sooner you do it the better. If not it can evolve in a toxic relationship. Don't ever maintain a relationship only for sex. You will regret it in the long term.

>>19025698
Did she try to help you out? What did she say to you?


If not:
>get a bottle of non-alcohol and put it in a brown paper bag and drink it around her.
>Take shots of water/apple juice around her.
>print out labels of beer and put them on soda cans(keep refilling with water instead of getting new pop if you are jewish.)

Well her mind obviously isn't in a good spot if she's doing a lot of those things around the same time.

Biggest advice is to be there for her. Try to ask her in private what's going on in her life, although it may take some time for her to open up to you. Let her know that you are always available for advice or an ear.

Regardless try to see if she can start seeing a therapist. If money is an issue, look into offices with sliding scale payment options or check the psychology departments at nearby colleges (she could get free sessions with psych students).

>>19025698
If she tells it will make you a lesser slut which is fine.
If you ask her she'll blackmail you.
Take it on the chin like a champ.

>>19025698
Most likely she won't listen to you. But if you wanna try then here is my advice.
Don't lecture. No one likes being talked down to by people who aren't their parents. You will just look like a hypocrite. Take some time and construct a narrative along the lines of explaining why when you did this you were wrong to do so. The goal is to lead her to her own conclusion that she should slow it down.

>>19025514
Lock every doors and windows, this is basic but can't be overstated since most people seem to forget locking one or two windows which is inviting.
Close every curtain as well, the trick of leaving one open in the room with nothing worth stealing ain't working. Only have it open when you're in the house.

Don't hid spare keys around your place (e.g pot, rug), you better have spares saved far from your home like in your cabinet or lockers in your workplaces. This would help narrow the chance of someone finding your keys under rug/pot also if shit ever happens, you could narrow the suspect since the spare keys are somewhere far away.

Get insurances. I know it didn't help making you feel safer when shit does hit the fan, but it should act as a failsafe so your day won't get worse if ever.
Invest in good CCTV system that you could access online via phones when you're working.

Cash is king, but it's very unlikely you'll need every single cent at your disposal always like Scrooge's money bin, use bank.
Consider using safe deposit boxes. Of course keep any items you use regularly, like health care etc in your house.

Adapt with your surrounding, don't flaunt your wealth or give an appearance that suggest you're richer/better than your neighbors. Words might reach someone who have ill intentions, even if it's your own neighbors.
Shut up about your income and financial situation, if you're known as well off or better, people will come into you whether you liked it or not.
Don't go trying to look "poor" it'll do the opposite. Every burglar's know when you're faking to be poorer than you are.

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>>19026909
To my right, my pc. The next stack of shit, my bed. I sleep on the far side past the garbage.

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>>19026909
Gotta wait 1m between each post(been posting a lot)

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>>19026909
Look at the file names.

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I was raised by jewish women
theyre not smoll and theyre not cute and they will make you miserable
stay away from them because now I hate all women

>>19025305
go on /pol/

>>19025305
East coast or West coast of US. Or just go to Israel.

>>19025305
Jew flocks to banks, futures, financial institutions, how the fuck you have hard times going there.
If not, go to any news media offices preferably online like buzzfeed or what. Chances are they've got jewish women as staffs.

When you're in those locations, drop some shekels and look for girls that got her ears to vibrate upon hearing that drop. If she's not brown/dark enough, chance are she's a jew.

>>19026731
Ok I understand your position a bit better now.

I'm similar to you when it comes to language. My minor is mandarin and when I was studying it over the summer I was clearly the worst one in the class. I would get shit on by students and the teacher because I could barely keep up despite pouring hours into the class. For these you just take it on the chin and ignore it. You can speak up if it really bothers you but in a sense I was "stupid" or slow when it came to learning the language. I won't go into why I know I'm not stupid but language is just something that doesn't click very quickly for me. If people only knew me through that class I wouldn't blame them for thinking I was obtuse.

When you mentioned that the person got frustrated when you didn't understand the simple task on Word that is your fault. Most people don't mind questions if they are insightful. However, if you ask someone for help on a simple task you can figure out yourself then it will irk them. That is something you can teach yourself by looking it up online or just spending time on the program. I would help a friend in Spanish and the only times I got aggravated helping him is when he would rely on me to answer a question he could have done himself.

>>19026736
Academically it's not much. I'm a relatively normal student. It's more my actions in day-to-day life that, while not bothering me, seem to make other people think I'm stupid. In my mind, it's not a problem if I left my bank card in the ATM twice in a month. Yes, it's an annoyance but there is more to life than being worried about it. One of my friends refuses to let that go. I suppose I'm vague if anything.

>>19026750
>>19026750
Actually I did look it up online but I wasn't accurate in my search so I couldn't find what I needed. But I'll take your advice on board about not letting the language thing bother me, as well as not asking questions for things I can do myself. Still it's tough putting in effort (like learning Spanish) only to be knocked back by people you would hope would be more supportive.

>>19026731
...you dont sound stupid..

Impatient, and shitty at language. Thats all.

Elementary and highschool sucks like that man.

We had these country wide tests to find out where kids were at in elementary school as far as learning the material theyre supposed to. Id always score 99th percentile. As in better than 98% of all the other students.

For some reason i was labelled as very stupid by the other kids and that followed me right through highschool (just a bad impression no one would let go of). So i had the other kids treating me like a drooler while the teachers were pushing me on a hard university academic path.


Theyre just assholes mang. You fucked up your impression some way some how at some point. Not much you can do will change it.

>>19026778
Thanks man. Sounded like you had a rough experience growing up.

>>19025706
bls respond, how do I escape this hell

>>19021287
cow fucker

>>19025706
What caused the break up senpai?

>>19021800
What were the signs?

I'm on day 1 and I feel very hurt. I keep crying without realizing it. It's insane, I wanted to break up for the past month, but I didn't think she would do it and be so cruel. I don't know what to do now but I have no friends and nobody to talk to. Hope this gives some relief to admit that I'm crushed, even if it's on an anonymous forum. I told her we could remain friends but the fact that she is leaving me for casual sex makes it really hard to imagine. She wants to keep in regular communication, I just told her I needed some time alone but if it were my choice I'd never message her again. It is my choice, I guess

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>literally nothing bad comes from being alone like it only has positives as far as I can tell

Lots of bad things come from being alone. Lack of forming meaningful relationships, stagnation, no networking, loss of opportunity, etc - humans are social creatures. There's a reason why solitary confinement is considered cruel and unusual in a lot of countries and why it seriously fucks people up.

That being said: do you like yourself?

>>19025865
>Why do I not enjoy being alone
That's cause you're a social slave and a doormat

>>19025865
You have to find the balance of being alone and social.
It sounds like you isolation issues more stem form personal issues and/or idleness. Spend time developing hobbies and activities to fill your alone time.

>>19025947
Yes, you are a huge douche.

>>19025947
I don't hang out with ugly women becouse I feel like I am leading them on. I fear that people will catch one sided feelings, it has already happenned to me.

>>19025947
>to want
If they smell the want then either you have to pay, be a doormat/servant, cheated/dumped.
Learn no to want but to get and to enjoy.
CHADS DON'T WANT THEY TAKE.

>>19025947
Does it make you wrong? No.
>I don't hang out with ugly women because I feel like I am leading them on
This mentality is really only ones ego creating a narrative. Don't avoid women because you think they aint pretty, just makes you seem like a weirdo. Just learn to temper you social skill based on who you are talking to.

>>19026215
>Yes, you are a huge douche.
Shut up Bitch.
>>19026010
Op listen to this anon.
>>19026265
>like I am leading them on. I fear that people will catch one sided feelings, it has already happenned to me.
It's your right to like or dislike people for whatever reason. You don't need to explain or justify to anyone.

/tread

T. Women who is only attracted to tall white or asian guys.