Essential Reads

Finding the Individual In Aggregated Study Data

By Nathan A Heflick Ph.D. on December 31, 2017 in The Big Questions
Story after story was shared in which music had changed people's lives in meaningful ways, helping people not just to survive but to live.

What Four Challenges Do Couples Face in 2018?

By Marty Klein Ph.D. on December 30, 2017 in Sexual Intelligence
What 4 challenges do couples face this year about love, sex, & intimacy? What do therapists need to understand about them?

The #1 Life-Changing New Year’s Resolution

This is the best resolution for 2018, in a word — well, two words.

Want to Make 2018 a Better Year? Measure Success Differently

By Bruce Grierson on December 29, 2017 in The Carpe Diem Project
Did 2017 fail to deliver the goods for you? It could be you were more successful than you think.

More Posts on Resilience

Five Ways to Overcome Fear of Failure and Perfectionism

By Christopher Bergland on January 05, 2018 in The Athlete's Way
An expert on coping with anxiety recommends five practical ways to overcome fear of failure and paralyzing perfectionism.

Has Mindfulness Become the New Kale?

Is mindfulness just a fad? Research shows that we need it and it works.

Living Beyond Regret

Are you struggling to get back on your feet again?

Resources Within Reach: The Merits of Speaking Up!

By Rick Miller LICSW on January 04, 2018 in Unwrapped
Were you bullied as a kid? Echoes of those messages often remain: “We deserve to be treated unfairly.” But those echoes will fade in the face of your superpower: Resilience!

Anti-Perfectionism Anthems Can Silence Your Inner Critic

By Christopher Bergland on January 04, 2018 in The Athlete's Way
Is perfectionism taking a psychological toll on your mental health? Listening to songs that unapologetically embrace imperfections helped me to challenge my own perfectionism.
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What Is Most Important In the New Year?

By Olivia Ames Hoblitzelle on January 03, 2018 in Aging with Wisdom
Inspiration for the New Year: Helpful guidance on cultivating your inner life.

Humorous Communication and Coping In Relationships

By Sean M. Horan Ph.D. on January 03, 2018 in Adventures in Dating
A person's Humor Orientation describes his/her tendency to use humor. This entry describes some ways that this orientation might be productive when facing difficult events.
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Building Resilient Communities in Times of Adversity

We live in a time of political chaos, terrorism, civil unrest, and economic unpredictability. We must build resilient communities if we are to survive and thrive. Here's how.

Texts and Textiles: Childhood Memories and What They Mean

My mother left school after the eighth grade, as her six sisters and one brother had done, in order to go to work. Yet our house was filled with books.

How to Incorporate More Gratitude Into Your Life This Year

Incorporating more gratitude into your life could be the easiest way to change your life this year. Here's an easy way to become more grateful.
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Have a “Happy New Year” by Avoiding a Fixation on Happiness

By Alex Pattakos Ph.D. on January 01, 2018 in The Meaningful Life
Are you looking forward to the New Year? If not, a shift in your attitude and focus of attention can help.

Stress Less in One Minute or Less

By Ruth C. White Ph.D. on January 01, 2018 in Culture in Mind
It's the time for New Year's resolutions and lots of people are joining the #newyearnewme bandwagon. So why not make less stress your new habit for 201?

Why You Should Not Share Your New Year's Resolutions?

When we talk about our goals to others, our brain is tricked into thinking that the goal was achieved. As a result, it stops investing energy in or inhibit actions toward our goal.

The Myth of Resilience

By Jen Kim on December 31, 2017 in Valley Girl With a Brain
Bouncing back from failure is not for everyone.

Need Motivation to Exercise? Science-Based Facts Can Inspire

By Christopher Bergland on December 31, 2017 in The Athlete's Way
Did you make a New Year's resolution to exercise more in 2018? Science-based knowledge of how physical activity optimizes your quality of life is a terrific way to stay motivated.

Positive Psychology in Martial Arts

Martial arts does not just teach us how to kick and punch. It provides a strong basis for living with positive psychology foundational principles.

What Is Your Risk for Clinical Depression after Disasters?

By Grant Hilary Brenner M.D. on December 30, 2017 in ExperiMentations
Due to the increasing prevalence of disasters, including natural disasters, technological accidents and terrorism, understanding risk and intervention is more important than ever.

What Can We Learn From A Year of Cyberbullying?

By Sue Scheff on December 30, 2017 in Shame Nation
After a year of cyberbullying and online shaming, how can we make 2018 a kinder and more compassionate cyber-place?

The Secret to Achieving Self-Improvement and A Better Life

By Deborah L. Davis Ph.D. on December 30, 2017 in Laugh, Cry, Live
Most New Year’s resolutions are epic fails. Instead, reflect on how you’ve stretched and grown during this past year, and you’ll reinforce your gains and learn your lessons well.

5 Small (Big) Things to Make the New Year a Better One

By Abigail Brenner M.D. on December 29, 2017 in In Flux
We all make resolutions to start a new year. But do we keep them or do we just make the same resolutions every year without results? Here's a new way to look at making change.
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Resolved for 2018: Choose Your Words Well

By John-Manuel Andriote on December 29, 2017 in Stonewall Strong
The language we use to tell our personal stories, especially to ourselves, contributes to our resilience--or undermines us.

6 Ways to Beat Stress

Relieve stress, even when you're already feeling totally stressed out.

Resilience Through the Eyes of a Wealth Psychology Expert

By Michael F. Kay on December 28, 2017 in Financial Life Focus
Resilience is a characteristic we all need at various points in our lives in order to embrace life’s challenges and come out on the other side healthy and, preferably, stronger.

Consent Violations in Consensual Non-Monogamy

Why are consent violations inevitable in CNM relationships, and what can people in those relationships do about them?

5 Alternatives to Traditional New Year's Resolutions

These alternatives will help you go on more adventures, connect with amazing people, learn new things, and grow stronger in 2018.

When Your Emotions Catch You Off Guard this Holiday Season

How to make sense of mixed emotions this holiday season

How This Common Fear Can Keep You Stuck

Fear kills more dreams than failure ever will. But it doesn't have to.

The Sad Holiday

By Carrie Barron M.D. on December 24, 2017 in The Creativity Cure
Some ways to address sadness during the season.

52 Ways to Show I Love You: Getting Ready Together

By Roni Beth Tower Ph.D., ABPP on December 24, 2017 in Life, Refracted
Often a couple faces an important change, perhaps of role, of home, or of responsibilities. They show love when they prepare for the transition and impact together. Here is how.