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So. Last ten min at the office made me go almost insane with anger and disapointment, so how do one overcome the anger?
Well, please do not do what I do. I bring the problem with me home and lash out on my family, not smart, not smart at all..

So now I sit quiet in a corner and try to stay calm and well behaved.

I try to breathe with my stomach and stay clam and together.
It helps!

What do you do when you are angry?

I know I am suppose to breathe it out and relax, but its hard. So I read some buddhist texts and shrugg my shoulders. For even I know that things passes and most anger are not helpful at all.

So “aum” to you and stay cool as a cucumber!

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Dagen startet med at treåringen sov to timer lenger enn vanlig. Premie i seg selv. Hun er en våkenklokkaseksunge i 99 % av tilfellene.
Deretter fikk mor sove litt til, før jeg fikk servert sjokoladehjerter på senga. De rosa rosene fikk jeg fredag kveld. Skjønne mannen!

Deretter deilig frokost og 5 timer på jobb, der jeg arbeidet med masteroppgaven min. Som jeg deretter fikk skryt av fra veileder. For ikke å glemme at jeg gikk frem og tilbake. 7/8 km i passe tempo.

Deretter laga jeg og ungen sunne muffins og hjemmelaget juice. Kjempegod juice, ikke fullt så gode muffins. Uansett, en kjempefin dag!

English:
Today is mothers day, and I got to sleep in and eat chocolate hearts in bed! The roses appeared already on friday. What a guy! And he is italian, my oh my I am a lucky girl!

Went to work to write on my master thesis for 5 hours and went home. Walked to and from, that means another 7/8 km in my work out book:)

Then me and my girl made healthy muffins and home made juice. The juice was amazing, the muffins pretty boring. Anyway a very good day and I am proud of myself.

Have a wonderful evening!

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I min tankegang går sunn nok mat, trening og meditasjon sammen om å hjelpe et menneske til å bli sitt beste.

Her er noen ordtak fra buddhismen som jeg liker:
“Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.”
“It is better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battles. Then the victory is yours. It cannot be taken from you, not by angels or by demons, heaven or hell.”
“It is better to travel well than to arrive.”
“Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without.”
“The only real failure in life is not to be true to the best one knows.”
“The way is not in the sky. The way is in the heart.”
“There is nothing more dreadful than the habit of doubt. Doubt separates people. It is a poison that disintegrates friendships and breaks up pleasant relations. It is a thorn that irritates and hurts; it is a sword that kills.”
“Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.”
“We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world.”
“What we think, we become.“

Ha en flott helg med gode tanker og gode gjerninger!

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