Aparna Nancherlaಪರಿಶೀಲಿಸಿದ ಖಾತೆ

I once did that at a locker room in Arlington VA and retired military men called me a queer.

Thank you, speaking up is hard work

I second that. It matters more that you did it than it does that they weren't receptive at the time. There's now a chance they'll be less cavalier about their sexism in future. You're helping to end the mainstream acceptance of this bullshit.

Serious question. Are ladies also censoring their locker room talk? I know what my girl friends in high school used to tell me they said amongst other girls. Let’s just say it wasn’t rated PG

X rated chat sure but it’s the predatory stuff that’s not. She/he was hot etc sure probs standard. She was hot I had to grab her pussy, no.

I played sports my entire life and have been in gym settings too. I honestly can say predatory language isn’t condoned and amongst men it’s usually isn’t too kosher to talk about being a predator.

“Usually not kosher”

Exactly why I think most dispute what was said as locker room talk. Derogatory stuff just feeds into general diminishing of women as people.

EXACTLY. I’ve know my fair share of guys I would be embarrassed to admit ... I legitimately cannot think of one who would ever say the bus tape talk. If trump had any money and offered me a lot of it to think of a guy I know who’d say that,Id miss out on the money he doesnt have.

No matter what anyone says, men act differently when there’s no women around.

You’re probably one of those few that is cool w demeaning and harassing women. Because I’ve worked in places w only men being in the background, even when drunk and uninhibited. Men don’t speak like that

Ditto!

I once heard a guy laugh about kicking a pregnant woman down the stairs once. His friends laughed because I hope they thought it was dark humor. It was insanely terrible and he ended up going to jail for that like two or three days later.

Thats insane.Usually I would say Id like 2know context but I cant think of a scenario a man would get a pass w. My girlfriends& I have made jokes wed help each other down the stairs if we got pregnant,but thats way more dangerous and too far for men. Sorry not a joke men can have

Yeah, it was the worst thing ever. His friends were pretty okay and I think they really thought it was a terrible joke. Nah, but the guy was like the absolute worst. I wanted to cry.

“And put your ugly dick away. I don’t care if it’s a locker room.”

Speaking as a guy who spends as little time in locker rooms as possible, I could never understand this. I don't even want to look at MY junk. I certainly don't want to see some other dude's.

This is perhaps the most questionable tweet I've seen in my life. A-are you trying to 'no homo' yourself??