anonymous asked:

How annoying is Missandei? First at all, DO NOT INTERRUPT MY BABIES while they're having a conversation I've been waiting for years, second at all, Sansa didn't tell Tyrion Daenerys was a b*tch or a terrible ruler, she simlpy said that while he is loyal to her she is loyal to the North, who wants to be indipendent. Not to mention,on a personal note, I don't like the idea of overlapping gratitude and submission, I really hope the show doesn't turn oround on the whole indipendence thing.

… anon, not to… like…. be a spoilsport but…. can we just see the whole picture?

now, I say this as someone who lowkey ships tyrion and sansa, has not much interest in dany’s storyline overall and doesn’t care for dany either way so like I’m not invested but……. from missandei’s pov she had all the right to say that and worse? I mean sorry guys but:

  • as much as one can find dany’s methods/standards questionable or not, to missandei she’s the person that a) freed her from slavery, b) brought her from a position where she doesn’t refer to herself in first person to main advisor to *someone who goes around with dragons* c) gave her an immensely better life, d) isn’t just her employer but her friend, e) gave her an immensely better life in which she found love too because going with the show verse she did;
  • so like, OBVIOUSLY missandei loves dany, wow, I can’t imagine why, it’s not gratitude and submission, it’s that for her and for people dany *freed* it’s a question of completely overturning the status quo and as much as I think that dany’s failure to see that you can’t just do it snapping your fingers without taking the bigger picture into account is her largest problem, to *them* it doesn’t matter;
  • now, as far as missandei’s concerned her side has gone north abandoning their main target, going with her entire army and entourage to help the northerners with the undead, knowing they might die and most likely will, and all they got back was people staring at them like they distrusted them, sansa openly going like ‘well how are we feeding them’ when they’re there to help and they need them, sansa being downright rude to dany (because she was and as much as I love sansa as a character that was downright bad writing and I’m standing by it) and zero recognition for their efforts;
  • now she is locked in a crypt doing zilch while her best friend and the man she loves with whom she has plans for the future are out there killing zombies and upholding their deal with jon………. and sansa goes about northern independence with tyrion and the likes putting his loyalty to dany (person jon has kneeled to let’s just remember that, and as much as ppl dislike it it was his decision only to take) as it’s a bad thing when missandei’s loyalty to dany is literally what turned her life around from utter shit and she has to shut up?
  • like sorry anon but she was very much within her rights to say it, from her pov she was absolutely right to point out that the northerners bar jon and a few others have been behaving like ungrateful arses to them because that’s what happened in 8x01 dot and she’s not annoying for that. like, for her pov she was right and honestly I hope sansa learned something from it because the entire point is that the stakes are higher than individual wants.

now: I also think that dany’s fixation on not having the independent north is iffy and honestly i just want everyone to get along, BUT: guys. not to be that person, but: robb didn’t even come up with that idea. everyone else did. if it was for him they’d have ceded to stannis the moment he knew ned was dead. it was his war council who decided the north had to be independent, not him, and this idea that the north has to be independent at all costs but just the north imvho is just…. very misleading? like, either they split into the seven kingdoms again and we have reinassance-like reigns that are better than westeros’s feudalism or okay we can have the independent north but is not a thing that was implied since the beginning, it was not a thing robb particularly wanted, it wasn’t a thing ned wanted and the fact that robb eventually died for it doesn’t mean that now they have to die on that hill, too, and tbh I also can’t with this idea that by kneeling jon disrespected his entire family’s legacy because he did absolutely no such thing and he did exactly the same thing the last kitn before robb did for reasons that to him were perfectly legit. and the fact that people don’t seem to be able to band together in the face of death because they’re squibbling about politics at this point says a lot about how this show’s writing could be improved, and that’s my two cents.

but like. missandei from her pov was absolutely in the right and ngl someone had to say it imvho, so. sorry, but I really can’t agree with that, and I say it as someone who cares a lot more about the starks than dany, that cares way more about jon than dany and who isn’t much of a fan of the targ restoration theory X°DDD

I found an au that @theunvanquishedzims texted me over a year ago! Unfortunately I didn’t save my own replies to it, but you can more or less figure it out.


Pffft white widow au similar to your space opera. Genos’ husbands always die shortly after he marries them and he has their ashes turned into jewelry. When he meets Saitama he’s covered in gems and Saitama can’t figure out why everyone’s freaking out over him complimenting Genos on them, dude’s obviously super proud of his collection or he wouldn’t be showing it off like that. He doesn’t understand why that gets him slapped upside the head by everyone in his retinue.

Good thing he didn’t say to his face or he’d get REALLY slapped. Nobody can figure out if Genos is murdering his husbands or just has phenomenally bad luck, but he’s prickly about it either way.

Hence his arranged marriage to Saitama. That guy can and has survived a dragon attack, he can survive bad luck and/or a homicidal bride.

Meh, he needs a challenge. And he might get to see boobies before the peril kicks in, like the time he was forcibly married to the snake queen. Oh wait, it’s a dude? Maybe he’ll get to see… a butt. A butt would be nice.

Or half the kingdom for whoever breaks the curse (by surviving a year). The curse already destroyed his duchy, it’s spreading to those he marries into, the king is getting nervous. By this point Genos had inherited so much that he’s still an attractive prospect, but the king doesn’t like his courtiers dying off, he needs those guys. Here, have a valiant knight!

Genos actually goes for it, because dragons and snake queens and ogres have purportedly fallen before this knight. If he is cursed, hopefully Saitama will break it. If he is the curse, what a crowning jewel to add to his kill count. (Pun intentional)

Yes mystery. Is Genos distant because he’s planning on murdering you, or because he’s learned not to get attached to his husbands to avoid heartbreak?

Maybe the mystery doesn’t get solved either. Genos just falls in love with him and it’s either sweet and pure love or villain redemption, no one can tell. It would help if he didn’t flounce around in spiky black dresses like (Batman) a dark lord, but he insists it’s mourning garb.

He wore red to the wedding which creeped out everyone except Saitama, whose thoughts on the subject were “hubba hubba” and “I wonder if you can hide a sword under there.” (Answer: yes, but Genos is a Proper Lady and confines himself to a delicate knife strapped to his thigh. For self-defense, of course, ogres and witches etc. Okay, several knives.)

Naturally. Rubies on all the handles. “Are all of your gems made from the ashes of former lovers, or did some of these come from pets or something, that’s a lot of knives.”

That one does get him slapped.

@whizzie72; See, I can understand if people generally just don’t think he or his content is their cup of tea. Don’t like his content? That’s fine! Don’t have his sense of humour/don’t like it/don’t understand it, therefore, don’t find him funny? That’s perfectly fine! He just generally isn’t your cup of tea? Also fine! Just don’t shit on people who do like him, and you’re fine!

And even then, I kind of get it. High school-esque dynamics of the social ladder don’t always stay in high school. People bully you and tear you down for enjoying the things you enjoy that they don’t understand. People have done it to me, and still do. I’m ashamed to admit it, but I’ve done it too in the past. People can be cruel towards what they don’t understand. 

It’s bullying, plain and simple, but it’s something I’ve been able to understand because… sometimes, people are just mean. People see Thomas fans, and they don’t understand, they think it’s cringey, stupid, silly, whatever- and they make fun of it. It’s easier to do that when you don’t see a person, just a faceless blogger gushing about the things they enjoy. 

It takes maturity to say, “I’m not into it, but they are, and that’s fine.” It’s easier to say, “I’m not into it, therefore, everyone who is into it is ridiculous and stupid. Haha! What fools they are.”

That’s just the cruelty you’ll find in humanity sometimes. I hate it. But I get it, in some weird way.

But. But. It literally confounds me to see the same blogs who genuinely enjoyed him in 2014/2015 suddenly shift and hate him. The ones who I watched reblog his Vines with nice commentary in the tags. Watch them suddenly post how evil he is because God forbid he considers aces LGBT. God forbid someone disagree with them! So weird to watch them begin to hate him over making mistakes. Human mistakes. Stuff we could easily, as fallible human creatures, do something similar?

It’s just weird to me how people can toss the whole baby out with the bathwater. One flaw, one mistake, and everything about him must be bad, so he’s #cancelled. 

It’s just weird to me. So so so weird. And I’m just typing out this post because it is literally just,,, so weird to me. 

you know, not a huge fan of that meme, but some of you never had to discuss anything with anyone not in your native language and from a different country with different issues and, god, does it show.

y’all here dissecting obsessively the use of specific words and which LGBTA+ groups can say what and in all of this you actively and constantly forget:

  • not everyone’s first language is your goddamn English ;
  • different countries = different struggles of the LGBTA+ community and some of us can’t afford to lose sleep over another person using a term we don’t like because the government is busy trying to deny us basic rights ;
  • even inside different anglophone countries is by now clear to everyone that there are different terms issues and use and y’all asking kids from rural and isolated backgrounds to have the language approved by the newest wokest new york lingo.

it’s counterproductive, it’s cannibalistic, it’s ridiculous.

“x people can’t say butch/femme/top/bottom/bear/twink/gay/doe/stag/whatever” … honey, do you really think people from other countries know (and care about) the full extent of the English urban dictionary LGBTA+ edition? 

I heard lesbians and bi women for years use seme and uke unironically as definitions, I heard people use “truck-driver” to say butch their whole lives, I heard of bi people who had to use slurs and insults to define themselves not out of reclaiming but because bi people are often deprived of self-defining terminology by monosexism. 

This shit is complicated and y’all there writing thousand and thousand on words on using queer or not, while not even stopping a moment considering that saying “the straights” and “the heteros” for your jokes throw under the bus all heterosexual trans people and all trans people who want to label as straight (also because a bunch of languages don’t even have the difference between hetero and straights, they just have slurs against LGBTA+ people that go as “tilted” or “inverted”).

You break our language in a thousand crumbs to overanalyze them and then lose the sight of the big picture.

Y’all there nitpicking words and uses and what not, as if we all come from the same upper-middle-class quartier of the east coast.

There is people out there who still don’t realize being bi is an option and they are not a self-hating gay or a lust-driven heterosexual and y’all want me to care if a 16 years old from Spain used femme the wrong way? Please.

anonymous asked:

at this point the writing can't be shittier so i just want drogon to eat Cersei and Jaime to live happily with Brienne idc who gets the throne lmao also they're going to go for shitty politician intrigue when all the best players are dead but tbh can't they just unite against Cersei? ffs

ngl? I 100% agree also if drogon eats her I’ll re-evaluate my appreciation of the lizards overall

anonymous asked:

Tbh Arya's sl has been really shitty the last few seasons and she's also had the worst endgame theories of all the starks - not to mention the shit show that was season 7 lmao. So i don't blame the arya stans for being glad about 8x03, i just wish it hadn't come at the expense of jon who is also one of my faves. I'd actually be ok with arya killing the nk if it was something like, jon reaches fights with the nk and while he's distracting him like that arya shoots an arrow or something at nk ~1/2

But the fact that jon and bran both had absolutely nothing to do in the battle just pissed me off. They’re collecting all these “brownie points” for gurlll powerrr with sansa making smart ass comments and dany doing dracarys and ninja arya when the writing is so shitty it doesn’t have any emotional impact and is NOTHING like their book selves. (Tbh if it wasn’t maisie being a good actress i wouldn’t have bought half the arya stuff in the show.) 2/2

^^^ EXACTLY? no but like bran is literally luke skywalker meets big brother and he’s just…… there? doing nothing? because he MAYBE PREDICTS THE FUTURE? idk. like. I’m not even starting on jon because they’ve been dumbing him down since s6 and I’m really fucking done with it on a principle thing, like I love jon even if he’s not top five material but like,………. can they stop making him look like an idiot/dumbing him down/having the narrative frame him as wrong when he’s right because EVERYONE ELSE has to look more compelling/smarter/whatever? like for fuck’s sake XD but yeah agreed 100%

anonymous asked:

I love how differently Val and Juls flirt. Like Val is so cheesy and dumb and romantic “you were my Prince Charming” “you look so pretty when you’re right” and Juliana is like sultry teasing and making eyes at Val

Lol, “cheesy and dumb”. 

But it works every time because Juls is ridiculously in love with her dork.

The cutest thing is, Val does it deliberately to lighten the mood and get a laugh from her girl.

Juls, though, Juls is so much reluctant to put herself out there. She does it when she’s super confident. Say…after their first time?

Or after saying she needed space, Val being the one to come to her and tell her she didn’t mean it, demonstrating so clearly that she’s actually still so into her. 

And her purpose is different, as is the end result, Val is so affected in a totally different way, lol. In those moments, the cute thing is that while Juls is definitely not looking to lighten the mood–rather the opposite–they enjoy the banter and flirting so much there’s still this joy that shines through.

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Call Me by Your Name (2017) - dir. Luca Guadagnino

How you live your life is your business, just remember, our hearts and our bodies are given to us only once. And before you know it, your heart is worn out, and, as for your body, there comes a point when no one looks at it, much less wants to come near it. Right now, there’s sorrow, pain. Don’t kill it and with it the joy you’ve felt.