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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
But as for him who feared standing before his Lord, and restrained himself from impure evil desires and lusts.
Verily, Paradise will be his abode” [al-Naaz’i’aat 79:40-41]
"Tell the believing men to lower their gaze, and protect their privates parts. That is purer for them. Verily, Allah is All Aware of what they do."
[Surah Nur verse 30]
Rasoollullah (sallahu alaihi wa sallam) said, "Be conscious of Allah wherever you are. Follow the bad deed with a good one to erase it, and engage others with beautiful character." [Tirmidhi]
In the name of Allah , the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
May peace and blessings of Allah be upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad.
Assalamu Alaikum Warahmathullahi wabarakathuhu, Muslim brothers and sisters,
PMO (Porn, Masturbation Orgasm) has become a huge problem in the Muslim Ummah. A lot of Muslims spend excessive amounts of time in front of their computers viewing porn while we should be engaged in productive activities that are of benefit to us, either in this world or the hereafter. Each and every second, we approach death. We all know this. Yet we are not able to get rid of the problem.
So, all the Muslims can unite under this subreddit and give support and encouragement to each other.
It was narrated from Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “The Muslim is the brother of his fellow Muslim; he does not wrong him or let him down. The one who meets the needs of his brother, Allah will meet his needs. Whoever relieves a Muslim of distress, Allah will relieve him of distress on the Day of Resurrection.” [Narrated by al-Bukhaari (2442) and Muslim (2580)]
Feel free to share any verses of the Quran and Hadith, progress reports, queries and any motivating material.
Insha Allah, we will be able to get rid of this problem.
Guidelines for Brothers and Sisters who are new:
If you are new to this sub please take some time to go through the information in the wiki. It includes some advice, helpful links, information on accountability groups and a list of useful tools. This will give you a good understanding about porn, its consequences and how to overcome the challenges it presents, insha allah.
Our sub provides you a badge where it will show you the time duration you have abstained from porn and masturbation. You can click the link which says "To set/reset badge" and enter the date that you have stopped the prior activity.
If you need support please feel free to share your story. There are many here willing to help you out. If you need an accountability partner you can post it here. Please always be careful because you don't know who is on the other side. You will be redirect to another sub so post a thread requesting a partner. May Allah bless you for all your efforts and be in Dua! Surely your creator is watching you and showing mercy on you.
Rules:
- Fear Allah and try to make good deeds and help your brothers and sisters. (Women are welcome) through this subreddit to overcome their addiction. If you are a sister and some other sister writes you please bear in mind that it could be a fake and beware.
- Please don't post your gender. If you have gender related things (sisters) please contact the moderators. We will then post it for you. Women looking for accountability partners, advice or general assistance, may directly contact our female moderator, /u/ihaveabigproblem-. Private messages between the sexes should not be done!
- Please don't post any possible triggers.
- This is an Islamic Forum so take care of your language.
- No Spam please. Trolls will be banned.
- Don't give a Fatwa if you aren't a scholar.
- If you post a text give the reference or the link.
- This is not a place for religious discussions e.g. about Fiqh.
- Any doubtful link can be deleted by the mods.
- The moderators are not responsible for anything posted here. Everyone is responsible for his own posts. If you see anything illegal or anything which is unislamic than please contact us or report it to us.