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We Become What We Worship

We Become What We Worship

It is an interesting truth: we become what we worship. That is to say, we emulate—or become like—the people (and things) we most admire. To understand this concept, we have to understand the origins of the word worship. The word worship comes from the Old English worðscip or wurðscip —or worthship—meaning “condition of being worthy, dignity, glory, distinction, honor, renown.” To worship something is to look at a person, object, or concept and judge it to be something of worth—something worthy of being worshipped. But there is a…

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The Beauty of Your Brokenness

The Beauty of Your Brokenness

This may surprise you, but if you are feeling tired and broken inside then you are probably in a very good place. Don’t get me wrong, a prolonged feeling of brokenness can be unhealthy and damaging—but periodic feelings of brokenness are actually quite necessary for overall growth. We become stronger people when we are forced to reevaluate and rebuild our lives. J.K. Rowling once said that after she had experienced the depths of poverty, “Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.”…

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Hope Changes Everything

Hope Changes Everything

My new novel opens with what I can only describe as a dark, gloomy, and near-hopeless situation. It begins with a newborn baby boy being abandoned in a cemetery—left to die on a cold, October night. But he doesn’t die, and I’ll tell you why.

When A Loved One Commits Suicide

When A Loved One Commits Suicide

When Ganel-Lyn learned about her sister’s suicide, she said it felt “like a bowling ball smashed into my heart, then fell with a thud to my stomach.” She says that the grief caused by suicide is “a different kind of grief,” one that lingers, tears at the heart, and creates questions that lead to a very dark place.

I’m Giving You My New Novel for FREE

I’m Giving You My New Novel for FREE

After years of working on several different versions of my novel, and after six months of GRUELING work (seriously, this was the most challenging creative endeavor of my life) it’s published! And I’m giving the Kindle Edition away for FREE on December 15 and 16 (today and tomorrow). I’m doing this for two reasons: #1 It’s a great way to generate interest and #2 It’s my way of thanking everyone for their support. Like I said, this was a very…

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How Losing Your Self-Esteem Is a Good Thing

How Losing Your Self-Esteem Is a Good Thing

The burden you carry is partly because in our culture we view ourselves as separate individuals. So we think a lot about how we’re doing—how we feel about ourselves. You don’t need to do that. Let go of that. Because, in fact, we are not separate individuals but interconnected with each other.

A Sneak Peak at My New Book!

A Sneak Peak at My New Book!

Last week, I announced that I am finally publishing my first fiction novel on October 7th of this year. Today, I’m going to give you a sneak peak at some of the cover art (created by the exceptionally talented Howard Lyon), followed by some additional information about the book. Now, given the expression on this raven’s face, you might be tempted to think that it’s evil or angry. I give you my assurance that he is neither evil nor angry—far from it! He just got a…

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Did J.K. Rowling Just Prevent a Suicide?

Did J.K. Rowling Just Prevent a Suicide?

J.K. Rowling, author of the phenomenal Harry Potter series, may have just prevented a suicide. Remarkably, she didn’t do it through the use of magic, but through the use of words. This shouldn’t surprise us because words are, as Dumbledore stated, “our most inexhaustible source of magic. Capable of both inflicting injury, and remedying it.” In May of 2015, a fan by the name of @BrocaesarTV sent J.K. Rowling the following Tweet: Then J.K. Rowling gave FOUR epic replies: Finally, she…

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