Starting a new path in a foreign country is never easy, but it is especially challenging for the overly introspective and self loathing soul. In the time since I’ve written last, I have learned quite a few Israeli aphorisms that truly stand on their own, contextually set or not. The past few days have included adventures I could have never fathomed having, with people I now can’t imagine not meeting.  And through these adventures I have learned a few things…

1. In Israel, there is no such thing as a line.  Pushing and shoving is encouraged, and a grocery store run can turn into a slight Hunger Game experience.  Find your courage, and don’t be afraid to throw some elbows.
2. Religious homogeneity is a facade. A Jewish state leads the rest of the world to believe that something as simple as a basic definition for “Jewish” can even be deciphered.  The world of black and white does not exist here, and what is found is the most beautiful spectrum of Judaism’s interpretations.
3. A good “afshar” can get you anywhere, and anything.  Learning a new language is hard, and learning Hebrew seems even more impossible.  But a quality “afshar” (is it possible…) and basic noun can do wonders.  With a smile too, that is.
4. Finally, it’s okay to be absolutely terrified.  Social media has deceived us, brainwashing our generation into believing that everyone else has it all figured out, and it is only me who is completely lost.  It’s okay to have no idea what you’re doing. Because starting in a new place isn’t supposed to be easy, but it will always be rewarding.

While four lessons are boasted above, I find myself learning something new about Israel and about myself every single day.  All clichés aside, I have found that upon discovering a new place, one discovers far more about himself.  What scares him, what motivates him, what angers him, and what ignites the passion which lay dormant in his soul.  Prior to embarking on this journey, I endured a year of loss and a year of challenge.  I have watched loved one after loved one pass, I have watched those I care deeply about struggle with addiction and homelessness, and I have consistently tried to remain invincible in my Johns Hopkins University bubble.  As I meet this Israeli world, I am truly meeting myself.  And for that, I’m grateful.