Morning Routines

e3dcf28bd284b124fcb69da1b95657a7At dinner with some girlfriends two nights ago, one friend said she was reading Buddhist books. I asked her which ones and why. Apparently, she wakes up, fixes her morning tea, and then reads out of one of these books. It’s a way that’s helped her get her day started right. This makes a lot of sense… people do yoga when they wake up, they pray, they read a devotional, an affirmation, or anything else you can think of that gets a day started out on a positive note; why not a Buddhist book?

I usually turn on the news first thing and have people telling me all sorts of terrible and stupid things while I make breakfast. We agreed, at the table over dinner, that this was probably not the best way to start the day.  I know this is true – I’ve been told it by multiple people. The stress, the silliness, the noise. I don’t know, though, I kind of love it. There’s something about knowing there are other people out there and things are happening and the world is already awake and moving… it makes me feel alive (usually). But, I decided that maybe they were right, and that maybe I should get myself a Buddhist book; in fact, I have one on meditation. I bought it in the hopes that I’d read it this summer, when I had some stressful things going on. (I bought it, got very excited about it, and put it next to the bed… where it sat for about a month until I put it on the shelf, unread.)

That night, when I got home from dinner, I found the book and pulled it off of the shelf. At first, I put it on top of my computer thinking it would be a good way to remind me to read a passage in the morning. Then I changed my mind and thought I’d better put it on the counter – right next to where the caffeine would come from in the morning; a surer way to make sure I see something.

Yesterday morning, I actually remembered the book, even before I made it out to the kitchen. I wouldn’t say I sprung  out of bed ready for the reading, but I WAS curious as to what my morning message would be. So, I rolled (second best to springing?) out of bed, put on my robe, and made my way down the hall. I started the caffeine brewing and went over to the book. I laid my hand on the cover and paused…

And then I went over to the TV and turned on the news.

Where to?

It’s October, can you believe it? Since June, the longest I’ve been home is two weeks at a time – I can hardly remember this summer, it was such a whirl and it passed in the blink of an eye. There was always something to look forward to and a plane to catch – I hardly caught my breath. A week and a half ago I came home from the most recent trip and got sick. Can’t leave your house, can’t have long conversations, can hardly stay up for more than a few hours, sick. I think I deserved it. In the past three months, I was in numerous airports, on seventeen flights, in plenty of hotels, other people’s homes, public restrooms, cities… I honestly can’t believe I lasted so long. I think my body finally just screamed, “Enough!” And that was that. So, I came home from San Francisco and went straight to The Couch.

d31fdbfa5046d60528439d2a1862933aDid I mention I might have a move coming? At the beginning of August, an opportunity was presented for me to move to San Francisco. I love San Francisco. I went to school near there, I’ve spent plenty of time in the city over the fifteen years I’ve lived in California, I have good friends who live there… it’s a familiar place, and not far from family (in California terms). During this last trip, I was there staying in the exact apartment (which is actually better described as a flat) I would live in if I move there. It’s a beautiful flat… really beautiful. One of my favorite things about San Francisco is that they don’t manically tear down the old to make way for new (a very common thing in LA, which is where I spent my twenties). This flat is over a hundred years old – gorgeous – and a walk from the Golden Gate Bridge. It’s really amazing. And the best part? It’s directly under two of my friends (one of my very best friends and her husband). My mom keeps saying it’s like a TV show – you couldn’t have scripted it better. And that’s true.

So, why is it that I can’t shake this can’t-make-up-my-mind feeling? Is it because I’ve been sick? Do I just not have the energy to be excited about anything? Am I just tired? Is it because I don’t actually HAVE the apartment (there are still recommendations to be called and financials to be checked and a cat to be approved)? During this past week, when the the friend who now lives in the apartment gave her notice to the landlords, I really had to think – do I want this?

The answer that I came up with was that I would leave it up to fate or the universe or whatever makes decisions when I don’t feel like making them. I have an overwhelming sense that this is an important fork in my road (though I’m not completely sure why I feel so strongly about that). Over the past week, I said (to anyone who asked): I’ve put my name in, I’ve done what I can and now I’ll just wait and see. Maybe they won’t call me back, maybe the rent will be hiked too much, maybe they won’t like me, maybe, maybe, maybe… and then I’ll know. Well, they called me and the rent wasn’t hiked very much (in fact, I was surprised at how not very much the rent was raised because I had prepared myself for much, much more. Have you looked at San Francisco apartment real estate lately? Of course you haven’t – let me tell you, it’s astronomical – so I was kind of counting on that to be the decision factor), and they think I’d be the perfect tenant if everything clears.

After getting the news from the property manager, I hung up the phone and sat there.

Someone had made the decision for me, just like I wanted. Thoughts started rushing through my head: is it sunny enough in Sand060385b1164ff6a811fbafe5595f627 Francisco? I know I love cloudy weather, but will it be too cloudy? What if I get sad? What if I miss my HOUSE? It doesn’t get that cold, mountain-smelling breeze at night like we get here. What if it’s too cold during the day? What if it doesn’t get cold enough there – what if I never see the frost in the morning – what if it rains too much (I LOVE THE RAIN) – what if, what if, what if??? BUT. But. I had said I would go if it all fell in my lap. And I had a pile of San Francisco in my lap.

So, what do I do with this? I find that something is rarely right if you have to push against the world to get it, and that something is rarely wrong when all the doors are opened for you along the way. ALL the damn doors are opening; I just wish someone would tell me what was on the other side, because I’m feeling weary of the unknown. The past two years have been all about the unknown. (Which, surprisingly, has actually turned out pretty well, but I’m still tired of working the being-breezy-with-the-unkown muscle.)

The truth of the truth is that this story will probably end well whichever place I live. It’s silly that I’m worrying over this – oh me, which wonderful, beautiful, fantastic place will I live in? Oh the streeeesssss. Slap me now. I get it.

And now that I know that I’m one step closer, I can feel the excitement growing. I look around me at this incredible place where I live now, and I love it, I’m going to miss it, but I know I’ll be back – even if just for holidays and visits.

I keep telling myself that this is all up in the air, that I don’t know what’s going to happen… even though I’m pretty sure I already have the answer.

Agnes Grey :: Week Four (Final Review)

Welcome to the read-a-long of Agnes Grey! We’re reading this book through September. You can see the reading schedule and guidelines on the Starting Post Page.

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Week Two: Read to The End

Discussion:

It’s the last week of this discussion! These month long Read-a-Longs fly by so.fast. Please forgive this girl for being behind… I got really sick this week and every time I tried to pick up a book I fell asleep. I’m almost done, so I’ll put my thoughts here when I am. Until then, start without me!

Who’s Reading Along:

June @So_meow
Sam @ The Little Munchkin Reader
Melissa Caldwell
jackiemania
Patty @ A Tale of Three cities
Lisztaffe
Shelly Govila
The Literarium
windowtoapast
Meg @ A Bookish Affair
chezjulie
Diane
Nancy
jaynesbooks
Maria
Jeni
thetruebookaddict
Stewart
Tahleen
Super Librarian
lauratfrey
Mary Ann
readerlane

 

** Please don’t forget to come to this blog each Monday and share your thoughts in the comments section of the weekly Agnes Grey discussion (see below for more information).**

 

Friendly Reminders:

  • If you are participating and I don’t have you on this list, please let me know in the comments section. I did not include people who said ‘maybe’ so if you have changed your mind and are definitely reading along with us, let me know so I can add you. Also, if you are not going to be able to join us anymore please let me know and I will take you off the list.
  • Comments from the previous week’s reading will be closing Sunday afternoon (before the next discussion takes place on Monday). If you would like to be part of the discussion, please remember to comment before then.
  • Each week, on Monday, share your thoughts about the previous week’s reading. If you are stuck on what to comment about, you can respond to my post or others’ comments. Regardless, you MUST check in each week (two weeks without a response and you will be taken off of the list — see below for details on why). You may have only one “off week” (which may not be the last week of reading for obvious reasons) and still be kept on the list, but you must let me know in the comment section by saying something like, “I’m catching up,” or “I’m still reading.” ***for all week’s discussions please refrain from posting ahead, even if you have read ahead, as to not spoil the book for others***
  • If you are a blogger you may post a link to your blog if you are posting about each of the each week’s reading. If I, or other readers, have extra time we will gladly try to visit your blog; however, you must make sure to share your thoughts here on this blog, and be part of the main conversation or your comment will not be counted.
  • If you go for two weeks without commenting in my weekly update comments section, I will assume you are no longer participating and will take you off of the list (*NEW GUIDELINE*, in order to get back onthe list, you need to a.) Have missed no more than two weeks of discussion, b.) Let me know you would like to be on the list again, and c.) consistently be part of the discussion for the next two weeks after requesting to be put back on the list.). This is in no way to be discouraging, but helps to keep the read-a-long organized (and helps me remember who’s completed what read-a-long). Thanks!


Northanger Abbey :: Sign Ups & Starting Post

During October we’ll be reading Northanger Abbey by Jane Austen for our Read-a-Long. Who’s in?

*** These are sign ups for the Read-a-Long, and also for leading discussion. If you’ve been reading with us for a bit, PLEASE consider leading a discussion! I know this will be a short read-a-long, so I’ll only use a couple of you, but if you’re willing to help please include the date which you’d like to lead in your comment and I’ll e-mail you with instructions. Thank you so much in advance for helping our read-a-longs continue! *** I have all of the helpers I need for this one, thank you!!

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Quick Facts About the Read-a-Long:

  • You do not have to be a book blogger to join.
  • We will be reading the book in October (four weeks), with the first discussion happening on Monday, October 7th. The book is about 219 pages (depending on which edition you read) so that’s roughly 55 pages a week; about 8 pages a day.
  • Don’t be intimidated. We will be going at a slow pace and discussing the book throughout our reading. The discussions are quite fun, and make the reading process very enjoyable!

What is Northanger Abbey about?  

A wonderfully entertaining coming-of-age story, Northanger Abbey is often referred to as Jane Austen’s “Gothic parody.” Decrepit castles, locked rooms, mysterious chests, cryptic notes, and tyrannical fathers give the story an uncanny air, but one with a decidedly satirical twist.

The story’s unlikely heroine is Catherine Morland, a remarkably innocent seventeen-year-old woman from a country parsonage. While spending a few weeks in Bath with a family friend, Catherine meets and falls in love with Henry Tilney, who invites her to visit his family estate, Northanger Abbey. Once there, Catherine, a great reader of Gothic thrillers, lets the shadowy atmosphere of the old mansion fill her mind with terrible suspicions. What is the mystery surrounding the death of Henry’s mother? Is the family concealing a terrible secret within the elegant rooms of the Abbey? Can she trust Henry, or is he part of an evil conspiracy? Catherine finds dreadful portents in the most prosaic events, until Henry persuades her to see the peril in confusing life with art.. (via goodreads)

About the author, Jane Austen:

Jane Austen was born on December 16, 1775, in Steventon, Hampshire, England. While not widely known in her own time, Austen’s comic novels of love among the landed gentry gained popularity after 1869, and her reputation skyrocketed in the 20th century. Her novels, including Pride and Prejudice and Sense and Sensibility, are considered literary classics, bridging the gap between romance and realism. (more…)

Please let me know in the comments section of this post if you are interested! Hope you’ll join us, the more the merrier! Below is a break down of  the reading schedule. Our first discussion will start next Monday, October 7th). Please take care to sign up with the EXACT name you are using for the rest of the read-a-long (meaning, you will be commenting using that name only for the rest of the read-a-long, see below in “How it Works” for information on why that is important). 

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The following is the reading and posting schedule for this read-a-long. Please note, we will be reading roughly 55 pages per week (about 8 pages a day). Because it is always easier for us to stop at chapters (rather than on page numbers, because of different editions), I’ve had to round to the nearest chapter each week. Please look at the week’s page amount to best plan your reading in order to keep up.

Schedule:

Beginning Tuesday, October 1st, and ending Monday, October 28th. 

READING SCHEDULE:

Week #/ Where to Stop (For example, in week one STOP and place your bookmark at Chapter VI.)

Week One/ Volume 1, Chapter X
Week Two/ Volume 2, Chapter I
Week Three/ Volume 2, Chapter IX
Week Four/ The End

POSTING SCHEDULE:

Post #/ date discussion post will be up on blog:

Start-Up Post/ Today!
Week One/ October 7th
Week Two/ October 14th
Week Three/ October 21st
Week Four/ October 28th (Final Review)

** Please don’t forget to come to this blog each week to share your thoughts in the comments section of the weekly Read-a-Long discussion (see below for more information).**

How it Works:

  1. Each week, on Monday (we’ve now switched to Mondays), I will post my thoughts about the week’s reading. You will have from Monday through the following Sunday to post yours. If you are stuck on what to comment about, you can respond to my post or others’ comments. Regardless, you MUST check in each week (two weeks without a response and you will be taken off of the list — see below for details on why). You may have only one “off week” (which may not be the last week of reading for obvious reasons) and still be kept on the list, but you must let me know in the comment section by saying something like, “This is my off week — I am catching up!” Please note that, in order to be counted, your offering to the discussion must be about the current weeks’ reading, not about past weeks. ***For all week’s discussions please refrain from posting ahead, even if you have read ahead, as to not spoil the book for others***
  2. As these Read-a-Longs grow, so do the amount of people who participate – yay, all the more fun!!! Also, all the more keeping track of who is still reading. As you know – if you have been absent from discussion for two weeks, you will be removed from the list. However, now, in order to get back on the list, you need to a.) Have missed no more than two weeks of discussion, b.) Let me know you would like to be on the list again, and c.) Consistently be part of the discussion for the next two weeks after requesting to be put back on the list. Am I trying to be mean? Absolutely not! I LOVE having you all read a long. It is, however, a lot of work to keep track of who’s still reading. To keep taking names off and putting them back on the list becomes tedious. Most importantly though, consistency is good for the group; we tend to get to know each other through discussions and rely on the conversation to keep us reading. Since I don’t do these read-a-longs to gain followers (I do them because the benefit of reading certain books with a group of dedicated people is often superior to reading them alone), I prefer to have a committed group – even if it is smaller. Reading with undedicated people is worst of all, which is why I care less about numbers and more about dedication to the book and the discussions. 
  3. If you are a blogger, feel free to post a link to your blog if you are posting about each of the each week’s reading. If I, or other readers, have extra time we will gladly try to visit your blog; however, you must make sure to share your thoughts here on this blog, and be part of the main conversation or your comment will not be counted. This is to make sure that our conversation is easily accessible to everyone who is reading, and also to keep it from becoming disjointed.
  4. Comments from the previous week’s reading will be closing Sunday afternoon (before the next discussion takes place on Monday). If you would like to be part of the discussion, please remember to comment before then.

On Re-Reading JULIE & JULIA

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As I’ve mentioned, I was re-reading Julie and Julia by Julie Powell. I finished it.

I really enjoyed this the first time around. In fact, I read it with friends, and then had them over for a dinner in which we each contributed a dish made from Mastering the Art of French Cooking. This was in 2009, around the time the movie was coming out (I think we read it before the release date but I can’t be sure… I do know I finished it before seeing the movie).

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Julia Child

Reading the book then compared to now is different for a few reasons. First, when I originally read the book, I wasn’t very familiar with Julia Child. I knew who she was, of course, but though she was famous, she was not as popular as she is now (or was back when she had her TV show). Second, I didn’t have the movie to fill in gaps and add flavor to the characters (for better or worse). Third, I was the same age then as Julie was when she started the project back in 2002… it felt very appropriate to be reading it at that time.

Being more familiar with Julia Child brought so much to this story. I got why Julie relied on her; why she was so inspired by her and loved her so much. It makes a lot of difference to know that person behind the mission struggled to find her way as well, but found it – and wow, did she find it. This strong personality who didn’t give up; who had an adventurous spirit and the grounding of good love, and a confidence to match anyone’s. One can imagine how she bolstered Julie’s will to try something new and daring and hard.

Having watched the movie so.many.times. I think I understood the dynamics better this time with the reading. Are these the real people? Of course not, I know that, BUT you can get a sense of the person. Julie Powell is not as quirky-cute as Nora Ephron’s version of her, but as I re-read the book – I can see which pieces of Julie Ms. Ephron pulled. And there is a part of Julie that is cute (though, I imagine she wouldn’t like to be called that), and she is very quirky… and funny, in a way that Ephron didn’t really change, she just fleshed out. Seeing Paul, who is such a little part in Powell’s book, but, of course, a much larger part of Julia’s book My Life in France, made Julia all the more real in the book; it helped to see the person who was encouraging her, who she was coming home to, who she was inspired by.

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Julie Powell

At the time of the first reading, when I was the same age as Julie when she started her cooking project, I was starting my blog. I thought it was very fitting and I felt a camradery. I was wrong. I can see that now, five years down the road. What I was doing was starting a new career, as a writer. What Julie was doing was challenging herself to try something that she loved for a finite period of time to jumpstart her life – to get her out of her daily grind. It’s something that I didn’t need back then because I was starting a new career… my life was being shaken up already. Hers was facing stagnation. There is some beauty in sameness, the ability to count on something or someone, but it’s difficult when everything in your life is never-changing. When Julia died, Powell wrote this on her blog: “I have no claim over the woman at all, unless it’s the claim one who has nearly drowned has over the person who pulled her out of the ocean.” In the movie, this line is used when Julie and Eric are having a conversation on the bed after Julie gets the phone call from the reporter in California saying Julia doesn’t approve of the project. Ehpron made the line humorous by making it seem like Julie was over-reacting, but in the book we see that Julie really did feel this way. That she really was drowning in an ocean of monotony – and that can be a dangerous place to be (maybe more-so for some than others).

And so I get this project in a way that I didn’t the first time I read the book, or even when I was beginning it again. I felt confused as to why Julie would put so much time, effort, and dramatic emotion (and possibly her relationship) on the line for it. But I think I now understand that it was important for her to have something to look forward to each day – even if it was a challenge, even if it was frustrating. And the ability to have an accomplishment, a real accomplishment, everyday is a valuable thing; as is the ability to have small victories that bring you to an ultimate goal (finishing the book in the year), and a support system that roots you on (the readers of her blog).

So needless to say, I loved it. I’m sure I’ll read it again someday… and now I’m hungry for more Julia Child and more cooking-centric books!

Where Are You From?

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Whenever anyone asks me where I’m from, I hesitate.

I’ve spent the most amount of years here in California, but I spent the majority of my growing up years in Colorado. Then again, I was born (and spent several formative years) in Illinois. I’m not technically from Kansas, but both sides of my family are (Kansas City and Wichita) and a ridiculous amount of family members went to KU (University of Kansas, not Kentucky, people) in Lawrence. My uncle even teases me telling me that I’m from there because I have pure Kansas blood running through my veins. I’m not, however, as I’ve never had an address there – but it’s true about the blood in my veins (and the memories of my heart).

Lately, when people ask me where I’m from, I’ve started saying where I was born, which was Illinois… Glencoe to be exact (though I was technically born in Evanston because it was the closest hospital). My first memories are from there. We were a family there. It was the last place my dad was alive, and it’s the state in which he’s buried. It’s also where my extended family that I’m closest to resides. Where you’re from can be a complicated question, but where you were born is pretty straight-forward.

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We (my mom, brother, and I) moved to Colorado when I was five and a half because my mom re-married. Although I was very young when I moved there, it always felt like I was pretending it was my home. Don’t get me wrong, I really enjoyed growing up there. Really enjoyed it. It’s a beautiful place to live, and it certainly was part of shaping who I am… but I still don’t feel like I own it. Maybe because we were there for such a certain purpose? To meld our family with another. And when that was over (my mom and step-dad divorced when I was seventeen), we moved away… to California. So, you see, it was almost like I borrowed that state for a time. Though I’m so thankful for what it gave me: a beautiful place to live, amazing schools, a summer camp that was magical, and lifetime friendships.

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It feels right, however, to say I’m from Illinois. Maybe it’s because there is still a hint of an accent that resides in my voice; I get asked, often, where I’m from (my theory is that it IS where I learned to speak, so somehow those little nuances burrowed their way in and never left). Maybe it’s because it’s the place where I entered the world; like I get some ownership of it because I wasn’t there for any other reason than because I had the right to be – it belongs to me because I was born there. Mostly, though, I liken it to another time in my life…

When I was young, after my father died, my mom told me that my step-dad wanted to talk to me about something important. He sat with me, at the kitchen table, and explained to me what adoption was. He told me that, with my permission, he would like to officially adopt me. I loved my step-dad very much, and he was as close to a dad as I would ever know again in my life, but I remember a very stubborn, sad feeling coming up inside of me – so I asked him if I could think about it. I already knew what the answer would be, but I was too young to know how to deliver it in the right way. So I privately talked to my mom and asked her how to tell him my decision. She told me to explain it to him the same way I explained it to her, so I did. I told him that while I loved him, the most meaningful thing that I had left of my father was that I was his daughter.

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That’s how I feel about where I’m from. Colorado is where I grew up and California is home now, and it may always be – I love it here! But, I suppose where I’m from is Illinois, in particular the North Shore of Chicago. Because the most meaningful thing I have in my life is my family, and that is where I met them.

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Completely behind schedule, I’m using the Blogtember prompts (which I found through Meg). Today’s on where I’m from.

* All pictures are mine except for the top one, which was taken from Google. In order of which they appear: the Chicago shore line from Lake Michigan, the house that I grew up in in Colorado, my dad and me, my family. 

Agnes Grey :: Week Three

Welcome to the read-a-long of Agnes Grey! We’re reading this book through September. You can see the reading schedule and guidelines on the Starting Post Page.

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Week Two: Read to Chapter XVIII

Discussion:

(In case you miss this byline, this week is lead by Jackie.)

This week’s reading has me musing on the roles of women in Victorian society.

In a past week’s comment I said that I kind of understood Agnes’ judgements and moral superiority if I thought about it as an exertion of the tiny bit of power a woman in her position could have in Victorian society. I am also taking that position on Rosalie. I couldn’t place why she was so bent on gaining the admiration of men only to torment them. (to to mention tormenting Agnes — she had an inkling about her feelings about Mr. Weston). Upon further thought, maybe it’s the one bit of power Rosalie feels she can have in her position. What do you all think?
A few examples from Miss Murray:
“I’ve humbled Mr Hatfield so charmingly!”
“…I am delighted with myself for my prudence, my self-command, my heartlessness, if you please; I was not a bit taken by surprise, not a bit confused, or awkward, or foolish; I just acted and spoke as I ought to have done, and was completely my own mistress throughout.”
my own mistress throughout! Now that’s telling! Where in this society are women their own mistresses? (Maybe, before they become women? Miss Matilda is still running around with horses and dogs and cursing, but I daresay not for long.)
Also Rosalie’s marriage proposal was a triumph more that anything remotely about love (or even respect). It resembles a business transaction more than anything romantic!

The other aspect of Victorian womanhood that I wanted to bring up is “selflessness.” Agnes says, in regards to Miss Murray going in for the Mr. Weston kill:
“Oh, if he could but know the difference!” I would earnestly exclaim. “But no! I would not have him see my heart–yet, if he could but know her hollowness, her worthless, heartless frivolity–he would then be safe, and I should be–almost happy, though I might never see him more!”
This is something I noticed in Wives and Daughters, too — Molly was so quick to have the attitude of “It’s ok if he doesn’t love me, as long as he’s happy!’ I’m trying to figure out if this is selfless in a good way (as in, if you love someone set them free blah blah blah) or selfless in a bad way (as in not having a SELF). Are “good” women not supposed to want?
I fully realize that your thoughts might not being going down the same road as mine. What caught your fancy in this week’s reading? Were you interested in Rosalie’s shenanigans? Did Agnes’ walk with Mr. Weston where he gave her the flowers make your heart go pitter patter? Do tell!

Who’s Reading Along:

June @So_meow
Sam @ The Little Munchkin Reader
Melissa Caldwell
jackiemania
Patty @ A Tale of Three cities
Lisztaffe
Shelly Govila
The Literarium
windowtoapast
Meg @ A Bookish Affair
chezjulie
Diane
Nancy
jaynesbooks
Maria
Jeni
thetruebookaddict
Stewart
Tahleen
Super Librarian
lauratfrey
Mary Ann
readerlane

 

** Please don’t forget to come to this blog each Monday and share your thoughts in the comments section of the weekly Agnes Grey discussion (see below for more information).**

 

Friendly Reminders:

  • If you are participating and I don’t have you on this list, please let me know in the comments section. I did not include people who said ‘maybe’ so if you have changed your mind and are definitely reading along with us, let me know so I can add you. Also, if you are not going to be able to join us anymore please let me know and I will take you off the list.
  • Comments from the previous week’s reading will be closing Sunday afternoon (before the next discussion takes place on Monday). If you would like to be part of the discussion, please remember to comment before then.
  • Each week, on Monday, share your thoughts about the previous week’s reading. If you are stuck on what to comment about, you can respond to my post or others’ comments. Regardless, you MUST check in each week (two weeks without a response and you will be taken off of the list — see below for details on why). You may have only one “off week” (which may not be the last week of reading for obvious reasons) and still be kept on the list, but you must let me know in the comment section by saying something like, “I’m catching up,” or “I’m still reading.” ***for all week’s discussions please refrain from posting ahead, even if you have read ahead, as to not spoil the book for others***
  • If you are a blogger you may post a link to your blog if you are posting about each of the each week’s reading. If I, or other readers, have extra time we will gladly try to visit your blog; however, you must make sure to share your thoughts here on this blog, and be part of the main conversation or your comment will not be counted.
  • If you go for two weeks without commenting in my weekly update comments section, I will assume you are no longer participating and will take you off of the list (*NEW GUIDELINE*, in order to get back onthe list, you need to a.) Have missed no more than two weeks of discussion, b.) Let me know you would like to be on the list again, and c.) consistently be part of the discussion for the next two weeks after requesting to be put back on the list.). This is in no way to be discouraging, but helps to keep the read-a-long organized (and helps me remember who’s completed what read-a-long). Thanks!


What Color is Your Parachute?

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Somehow I’ve made it to my thirties without ever reading What Color is My Parachute?, am I the only one who didn’t read this on graduating from college? I was at the bookstore with a friend, this week, and she said it was one of her favorite books. I come to find that it not only helps you when you are thinking of starting (or changing) a career, but it also helps you find out what you are good at. I love books that give you insight into what you can be doing with your life to make it better. i tend to like practical, instructional books, so I’m not great with the self-help books that ask you to do a lot of thinking (I already over-think as it is); I like the ones that have you do a lot of doing.

Have you read this book? Did you like it/hate it? Do you feel like it added anything to your life or was helpful in anyway? Curious to hear what others think… I’m only in the first few chapters.

Agnes Grey :: Week Two

Welcome to the read-a-long of Agnes Grey! We’re reading this book through September. You can see the reading schedule and guidelines on the Starting Post Page.

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Week Two: Read to Chapter XIII

Discussion:

Okay, I’m getting that Jackie was right when she said Agnes was a McJudgerpants. I have to say that she does take herself quite seriously, doesn’t she? Now, my question is: since we know that the book is based off of Brontë’s experiences as a governess, do we think that she took herself this seriously and was just reporting or that she realized how judgey she was during her time with these families and was accentuating that?

I have to say that I enjoy Rosalie and Matilda. I find them to be comic relief and it would be hard to believe that Brontë didn’t mean for them to be… but I am often wrong, so please tell me what you think. I was a bit disappointed to read that they weren’t kind to the people who live in the cottages, as that takes the humor of their characters (of which Brontë has done a good job of basically making them caricatures) down a notch.

Also, what do you think the point of the sermon-y chunk of writing was about? To help us get to know Mister Weston? To help us know better how pious Agnes is? To get to know Nancy Brown better. Brontë could easily have stopped after telling us about Mrs. Brown’s interactions with the old rector and showing us, quickly, how much kinder Mister Weston is, but she chose not to. I wonder why; do you have any ideas?

Do we think that Miss Grey and Mister Weston are going to have a love affair (perhaps a very serious, religious love affair, but still a love affair)?

In case you don’t already know this, Agnes Grey is available for free online here.

Who’s Reading Along:

June @So_meow
Sam @ The Little Munchkin Reader
Melissa Caldwell
jackiemania
Patty @ A Tale of Three cities
Lisztaffe
Shelly Govila
The Literarium
windowtoapast
Meg @ A Bookish Affair
chezjulie
Diane
Nancy
jaynesbooks
Maria
Jeni
thetruebookaddict
Stewart
Tahleen
Super Librarian
lauratfrey
Mary Ann
readerlane

 

** Please don’t forget to come to this blog each Monday and share your thoughts in the comments section of the weekly Agnes Grey discussion (see below for more information).**

 

Friendly Reminders:

  • If you are participating and I don’t have you on this list, please let me know in the comments section. I did not include people who said ‘maybe’ so if you have changed your mind and are definitely reading along with us, let me know so I can add you. Also, if you are not going to be able to join us anymore please let me know and I will take you off the list.
  • Comments from the previous week’s reading will be closing Sunday afternoon (before the next discussion takes place on Monday). If you would like to be part of the discussion, please remember to comment before then.
  • Each week, on Monday, share your thoughts about the previous week’s reading. If you are stuck on what to comment about, you can respond to my post or others’ comments. Regardless, you MUST check in each week (two weeks without a response and you will be taken off of the list — see below for details on why). You may have only one “off week” (which may not be the last week of reading for obvious reasons) and still be kept on the list, but you must let me know in the comment section by saying something like, “I’m catching up,” or “I’m still reading.” ***for all week’s discussions please refrain from posting ahead, even if you have read ahead, as to not spoil the book for others***
  • If you are a blogger you may post a link to your blog if you are posting about each of the each week’s reading. If I, or other readers, have extra time we will gladly try to visit your blog; however, you must make sure to share your thoughts here on this blog, and be part of the main conversation or your comment will not be counted.
  • If you go for two weeks without commenting in my weekly update comments section, I will assume you are no longer participating and will take you off of the list (*NEW GUIDELINE*, in order to get back onthe list, you need to a.) Have missed no more than two weeks of discussion, b.) Let me know you would like to be on the list again, and c.) consistently be part of the discussion for the next two weeks after requesting to be put back on the list.). This is in no way to be discouraging, but helps to keep the read-a-long organized (and helps me remember who’s completed what read-a-long). Thanks!