lemme try summarizing some stuff

I) being overweight in and of itself does not make you more unhealthy. there are correlations that people are still untangling and failing to acknowledge this demoralizes an already vulnerable population. You can work-out for better cardiovascular health, it won't necessarily make you thin

II) and that's okay. acting like being fat, regardless of the cause, is a moral failing when you simultaneously believe in bodily autonomy and dignity is inconsistent with those principles and unnecessarily cruel. It leads to poorer health outcomes (and service!) partly because medicine, as a whole, hasn't appropriately adjusted to points 1 and 2 yet