anonymous asked:

Are transmasc people only considered boys or can girls be considered transmasc as well? Also, can a transfemme be a boy or only a girl? I am not too educated in transmasc/transfemme terms, so can you people specify what those things mean to me?

I’m not too educated on this either, so if I say something that’s not correct, I’m sorry, please correct me.

From what I know, a transmasc/femme person can be considered as a boy or girl or whatever they want to be considered as. Transmasc means not necessarily wanting to transition to a male but transition to be more masculine. That can mean binding, taking testosterone etc. to become more masculine, but the person doing that doesn’t really identify as male. It’s the same with transfemme - wanting to transition to be more feminine rather than transition to be a female. People who are non-binary/genderqueer etc. generally use these terms because of not wanting to be strictly male or female but be masculine or feminine. I hope I answered this right, but if I said something wrong, please correct me.

- Mod Lila

(Other mods, feel free to add on)

Also, I found out, while researching this, that I’m kinda transmasc- yay!

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Once I’ve finished my third year uni exams, think i’m gonna try get back into blogging and bookstagram again

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[!] EXO Kai and BLACKPINK Jennie are reportedly dating

Dispatch has revealed their January 1, 2019 Couple

Kai and Jennie reportedly went on a date at Sky Park, Nov 25. Kai picked up Jennie in his car and they went on a drive together. Also after Kai returned from Hawaii Dec 2, the first person he went to see was Jennie. They had been dating since at least October.

Also being pointed out by Dispatch is Kai and Jennie’s couple items Scarfs, Converse sneakers, coats, jeans, beanies

Currently both SM and YG Entertainment are unable to be reached by reporters regarding Kai and Jennie, or are not willing to release a statement yet

anonymous asked:

idk if y’all will know the answer to this but im femme and my butch gf wants to know more ways to like show that she’s butch when we’re out in public besides her appearance. it makes me really happy and makes her feel more butch. sometimes when we’re leaving places she’ll put her hand on my back and kinda guide me out, stuff like that. do y’all know anything more like that that butches can do to be like loving/protective of their femmes in public w/o too much pda?

it sounds like you are wanting to know about butch chivalry on dates, or perhaps ofos (old fashioned old school) butch/femme etiquette! this is all about showing your femme as much respect and courtesy as you can and caring for her safety. none of these are required in order to be butch, and you should only do the things that make both of you happy, but here’s a few more ideas for your butch!

  • open doors of cars or buildings and let your femme enter first
  • when walking down a street, walk on the side of your femme that is closer to the street
  • position yourself between your femme and the gaze of nearby men. perhaps even stare down men if they don’t mind their own business
  • when walking side by side, bend your arm, palm facing down, and hold it out to your femme, and she can hook her arm under yours and rest her hand on your forearm
  • assist your femme walking up or down stairs, especially if she is wearing heels - a hand on her back and walking just behind her when going up stairs, and walking just in front of her and guide her with your hand or arm for support when going down stairs
  • pull out chairs for your femme, don’t sit down until she has sat
  • taking charge of ordering food/drinks or talking to waiters - don’t decide what she wants for her though!
  • paying for meals or gifts - this really depends on your financial situation so don’t feel bad if that’s not feasible or not something that you both enjoy. if it is something that you really like doing but you don’t have much more money than your femme, you could take turns paying for things, or you could pay and then let her pay you back for some of it later
  • if you’re feeling romantic but don’t want to kiss on the lips in public, lift her hand to your lips and give it a gentle kiss :)
  • and of course the classic - offer your coat or jacket to your femme if she seems to be getting chilly

and then there’s also a few things that a femme can do for her butch!

  • straighten your butch’s collar, tie, bowtie, jacket, etc
  • light touches on her arm or shoulder, or even her thigh when sitting together
  • leave a kiss mark on your butch’s cheek (perhaps best to wait til the end of the night for this)
  • compliment your butch’s looks or talents, make her feel good about being butch
  • let your butch do things for you that make her feel good, and thank her sweetly for them
[INFO] YG has confirmed that BLACKPINK will have a comeback in March!

Note: He has also said that he is planning for BLACKPINK to have 2 comebacks (including the March comeback) as well as the rest of the solos out by the end of 2019!

Full offense

I don’t respect people who think they’re better than others because their education was “higher” or “better” than others. You know the kind of people who say people who went to uni are better than people who went to college. Or the kind of people who mock others for not knowing something they might not even have had at school.

They’re on some elitist, classist and ableist bullshit.

Educate don’t ridicule. Be kind or get lost.