Alyson Tabbitha

Time’s always moving on; nothing can stop it. We can’t change the past, but we can still learn from it. And we can shape the future, creating a more peaceful era, by adopting a realistic approach, recognising that the more compassionate you are, the more you’ll find inner peace.

Let me tell you how much of an impact a diverse panel of judges can make. I was one of two black cosplay judges on AUSA's hall costume contest. Every time a black and dark skinned PoC cosplayer came through the door to be judged and saw us, you could see the tension leave them

We may sometimes feel that we can’t do much as individuals, but humanity is made up of individuals; we can make a difference. As individuals we can influence our own families. Our families can influence our communities and our communities can influence our nations.

While you're still horrified by the mosque shooting, I'm going to share something I don't normally share. Because tomorrow, it won't be so fresh, and that feeling you have right now, where even a small, kindhearted country like NZ isn't safe won't be filling your heart the 1/

IF YOU'RE INVITING A COSPLAYER as a guest to your con you're ALSO inviting their assistant/partner that has experience maintaining their outfits, manning their booth, knows his/her body language and can act as a security measure. Stop expecting people to travel faraway alone!