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Question:

Hey I am 18 years old, I have been in a relationship with this guy. We've only met once or twice,and we never kissed, we talk to each other regularly on texts and on video call. On video call we masturbate by taking each others names, we give each other pleasure but now I have realized that he doesn't like talking to me. Whenever I text him he always says to send him private pictures and whenever I refuse to masturbate for him or send him pictures he says he want breakup and then he starts fighting he argues and says he will fins someone else. I like talking to him and i want him to tell me everything going around his life but he never tells me I don't know what to do. Does he love me or my body? Shall I breakup with him before its too late because I think he is just playing with my feelings. Please help me to make my decisions as I am really confused right now..

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How supported do you feel (by family, friends, society, etc) in your choices around sex?

Haha. I guess that depends on your definition of "supported." Am I given free reign over my sexuality? Yes. Have my parents ever had a heart-to-heart discussion with me about how I think, and feel, about sex? No. I'd like to think that I'm better off than some other people, …

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